Tuesday, 23 June 2015

Yes! You can now 'Unsend' a sent message on Gmail

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You can now 'unsend' a sent mail on gmail, news making the round suggests, and I just confirmed it myself by going to the 'settings' tab on the upper right hand corner of my email, scrolling down to where I found the 'undo send' option  and ticked the 'enable undo send' box.

Although it comes with a little limitation where you have to choose  from 5, 10 ,20 and 30 seconds options checkboxes, which are the available times in deciding whether you wanna undo the sent message or not. I think that's pretty fair in my opinion.

So just incase you sent a flirty email to your girlfriend or wife and for some inexplicable reason, you mailed it mistakenly to the email address of your boss, you've got a bailout now LOL. Shout out to google for this one.

ABANDONING YOUR CAREER OR BUSINESS FOR LOVE…SMART MOVE OR DUMB ONE?

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Ludacris with new wife Eudoxie Mbouguiengue. File photo Image by: @RapUp via Twitter

This topic was inspired by the Gabonese lady and one time medical student,Eudoxie Mbouguiengue who reportedly took an indefinite leave from medical school to spend more time with her then boyfriend, now husband, Christopher Brian Bridges, best known as Ludacris. The pair recently tied the knot the same day she was proposed to. The wedding ceremony was reported to be held with a small circle of family and friends, and in what was actually a surprise wedding chiefly orchestrated by Ludacris and his mom, without any consultation from the girlfriend and fingers-crossed “wife-to-be” (story for another day).
Back to the topic, I don’t think it was worth it in Eudoxie’s case, to leave a promising career path by taking an indefinite break from Medical School to have better quality time with your boyfriend. Who does that? Except she didn’t get into the Miller School Of Medicine at the University Of Miami by merit and out of the passion of becoming a respected and successful medical doctor in future, she has no business putting her education on “indefinite leave” just to be on the road with Ludacris. That’s not how love works in my opinion. Is she planning to be a housewife and become dependent on Ludacris? A lady shouldn’t have to depend entirely on her man for her livelihood. She should best have something going on for her as well, whether it’s in business or career, so she gets to support her man in some areas both in and out of the marriage context. So there really has to be a more valid reason if any, for a lady to ‘up and leave’ her educational pursuit, career or business ambition for “love”.
One of the major factors that does rear its ugly head in relationships is the issue of the couple getting separated due to their career or business demands splitting them into different geographical locations. Now that can be very tricky, and leads to a lot of compromise and sacrifice on the part of both parties. Many factors would definitely have to be ironed out and a reasonable conclusion to the matter brought forward for it to at least seem like a win-win situation. But this was even a different scenario in the case of Ludacris and Eudoxie, as she was still in school, and permanent location differences didn’t seem to be the crux of the matter, it was more like the case of not being able to be on tour all day with a widely known hip hop star, and all that paparazzi business. It was like she lost focus.
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Photo credit: Instagram
I guess we should just be happy for the newly wedded couple and give our recently married African beauty, Mrs Bridges a benefit of a doubt that she knew what she was doing when she put her medical school training on hold, and was not just simply swayed by love and the apparent comfort, glitz and glamour that her hubby’s lifestyle and career was all about and would guarantee her.
It is worthy of note to mention that Mrs Bridges is very much involved and runs a charitable nonprofit organization, Unspoken Angels. Their mission is so support, educate, inspire, and empower young ladies who have endured mental, verbal and sexual abuse. Hope she keeps up with that.
Would love to know what you guys think. Should love be a strong enough reason or motivation to put off or simply abandon your dream job, career or business? Share with me.

Cool African slangs you should know

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Slangs have become an integral part of the African culture. It has formed a major means of informal and even formal communication both amongst the young and elderly for spoken and written conversations, whether in online and offline means of communicating.
Here are some fun African slangs that foreigners who might find themselves in some of these African destinations for business, pleasure or both, and also our African brothers and sisters in the diaspora would find interesting to learn and use in their daily communication:

SOUTH AFRICAN SLANGS

  1. Izit? Or Sho? Meaning Is that so?
Example:
A: “Dude, I’m currently watching the latest James Bond flick, it’s been pretty awesome so far.”
B: “Izit?”

  1. Shame!
This is an endearing term that is used by South Africans in just about every social situation. Seriously, when in doubt, just say “Ag shame” and your sentiment will be greatly appreciated.

Example:
A: “I just got a new phone.”
B: “Shame.”
A: “Her mother is seriously ill and has been admitted to a local hospital.”
B: “Shame.”
A: “My brother won a million bucks yesterday.”
B: “Shame!”

  1. Ag meaning Oh man
Ag — pronounced “Ach” — is a filler word. We South Africans love our filler words. If    you ever feel like you have said shame too often — very unlikely — just throw in a filler to change it up a bit.
Example:
Ag, I had a great time last night.”


  1. Loskop meaning Loosehead

This is just a humorous excuse, used to explain away forgetful or odd behaviour.
Example: “I am such a loskop today. I forgot my wallet at home.”

  1. Jol meaning A party

Any party, get-together or fun activity is a jol.

Example:
“Sounds like they are having a real jol next door.”


GHANAIAN SLANGS


  1. Chale meaning Friend or Pal

It is often used to communicate with people within your age bracket.

Example:

A: Chale what was the final score between Arsenal and Chelsea?
B: It ended Chelsea 2, Arsenal 1

  1. Boko meaning I’m cool

Example:

A: Chale how you doing?
B: Boko bro
  1. Jiggy Jiggy- A slang term for intercourse. I learnt this is usually a slang used for the wrong reasons and at awkward times of the night and should you ever be on the receiving end when the slang jiggy jiggy is used, you should literally run! LOL

  1. Gulla Gulla meaning butt
Example: It is a general consensus among many that African women are well endowed in the gulla gulla ‘department’
  1. Acomba“- This is the slang term referring to a person who has a large appetite.

  1. Dang it- used to express excitement. Kind of like ’Yaay’ we are more familiar with.


RWANDAN SLANGS

  1. Bolo: This is used by Rwandans to refer to anything valuable, which is pretty relative I suppose. For example: Akon’s bolo has to be his voice.

  1. Agati means Weed or Marijuana.

Example: Terry G and D’banj must have been high on Agati with the way they have performed on stage over the years

  1. Kebo means a nice ride

KENYAN/SWAHILI SLANGS

  1. Niaje means ‘how are you doing’

  1. Poa means cool or I’m cool. So if one greets you with “niaje”, you could reply with “poa”


  1. Msupa means Beautiful Girl. If you ever find yourself in Kenya or with a beautiful Kenyan damsel like Lupita of 12 years a slave, you could compliment her with a phrase like “wewe ni msupa” and win her heart. Simple! :)

  1. Beshte means A friend   For exampleI would like to be your beshte

NIGERIAN SLANGS

  1. Caro meaning fine lady
       Example: A: Peter what’s happening with you?
B: I’m with my caro at the movies
  1. Wetin dey happen means What’s happening
Example: A: Bro, wetin dey happen for Lagos
B: Nothing much bro, just the usual Lagos ‘hustle and bustle’ synonymous with Lagos.
  1. Chairman: This is used commonly to praise and greet a friend, usually within the same age bracket
Example: A: My Chairman how you doing?
B: I am alright man, what’s up!
  1. I dey: means I’m alright or I’m doing fine
Example: A: Chairman what’s up
                 B: I dey bros
  1. I remain loyal Meaning ‘I have not changed,’ ‘still your buddie’,or ‘still the same cool dude’. It’s usually used among buddies when talking over the phone.
Example:
A: Boy how u been, what’s changed with you
B: I remain loyal sir.

  1. Padi means Close Friend or Buddie
Example: I just left my padi ‘s house some minutes ago.

And that’s where I draw the curtains people. There are many more African cool and interesting slangs out there that I can’t exhaust all of them as I’m still learning myself especially the Non-Nigerian slangs. Hope you find some of these ones I’ve listed useful though when the situation arises. Cheers!

Opinion: Why Saying ‘I Love You’ Is Not So Common Place In The African Society

Whereas saying ‘I love you’ is common place in the western world, I can’t say the same for the average African family, though I can’t really say where our African brothers and sisters in the diaspora stand in this matter .
To back up my argument for the westerners, the then famous boy band Westlife in one of their songs ‘More Than Words’, sang about their girls saying ‘I love you’ but were not putting it as much into action. How funny because that seems to be the reverse order in the African culture, where for example the African father shows love to his children by paying for their school fees, buying them gifts, shielding his daughter from ‘bad boys’, etc, but never bothers to actually say those three magical words ‘I love you’ probably because he feels showing he loves them is the best way he can say it.
Even husband and wife find it difficult to utter those words to each other for some reason. The children too are not exempted from this ‘crime’(Lol), their own way of saying ‘I love you’ is perhaps by doing well in school, assisting in house chores, and just being a good and obedient boy or girl. Relationships between a young lad and his girlfriend also are part of this whole drama, guys probably being the more guilty party.
Now I know definitely action speaks and should in fact speak louder than words, but in this very case of human relationships, there is something about saying ‘I love you’ to your loved ones which unarguably must complement your actions towards the one you are professing love to of course. Your words must be as good as your action.
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Why Africans don’t usually say ‘I love you’ might vary from one person to the other. For some guys and men, including fathers, they probably feel it makes them look or sound less of a man and weak since African men are known to be strong both physically and emotionally.Oh how wrong they are.
Some on the other hand actually don’t say it or show it better still either like they ought to for some reason, yet they are in a ‘relationship’. These ones are not who we are talking about today so I’m gonna leave it at that.
Some African men actually in addition to showing it would love to say ‘I love you’ to their wives, children or girlfriends as the case may be, but simply won’t, not because they feel it makes them seem weak or less of a man but simply because they are simply shy of saying it. Now whether that’s cute and adorable or not, I leave it to you.
As for our ladies and women, shyness of saying the three words could also be a factor. Another reason I can think of in the case of an unmarried couple may be the fact that each one is playing what I would call the ‘waiting game’ or ‘mind games’ to see who says it first while they are of course showing themselves the affection. Perhaps they may also feel that whosoever says ‘I love you’ first is the one that would have lesser ‘power and control’ in the relationship. Pathetic you say right? I would only excuse immature folks to do that anyway.african_couple
Sadly these are some possible reasons from my findings why two people in a supposedly committed relationship do not say those three powerful syllables as often or at all.
So in the spirit of love, I admonish every African child, man, woman, guy or lady and even our non-African friends out there, who might be guilty of this ‘offence’ to repent and say ‘I love you’ as much as you show it to your loved ones(and you’d better be showing it alright) or risk being charged to the ‘court of love’. Believe me, you don’t wanna get on the wrong side of the love court. Lol. So try it today. There’ s something magical about saying those words, that words itself cannot describe. Take it from me. I love you guys.
Would like to know what you guys think about the topic. Do you think we say ‘I love you’ as much as we ought to in Africa, or do you perhaps feel it’s not even necessary as long as we are showing love to those we care about?

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A cross-section of some of Naija's finest female radio OAPs

Nigeria houses a lot of exciting and ‘fun to listen’ on-air radio personalities, who keep doing their thing connecting to their audience just fine across the various shows they anchor. They keep us excited, engaged and impact on us positively, covering various topics from music, showbiz, lifestyle, and so on. Here are a couple of them (working with Lagos based radio stations) you should check out:

Titilayo Oyinsan(a.k.a Titi the dynamite)

The gorgeous Titilayo Oyinsan is an on-air radio personality with Inspiration 92.3 Fm Lagos, The number one family radio station in Nigeria. Titi has come a long way from her days of modelling, doing voice-overs, presenting on TV and starring as a video vixen in Nigerian music videos. She has indeed been a force to reckon with in the entertainment  and modelling industries both in Nigeria and South Africa.
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Titi The dynamite
She anchors family shows like ‘Your baby and you’ to business focused ones like Nigerian women titled ‘Naija women in business’ amongst other cool shows. A fun and proud mother of twins, who got married to a fellow on-air radio personality working at a different radio station in Lagos, Titi the dynamite is one cool radio personality always nice listening to. You can catch her between the hours of 10am -1pm W.A.T (G.M.T+1) streaming live on inspirationradiong.com for folks outside Lagos, and 92.3fm if you are in Lagos and prefer to listen in via your local radio device offline.

Anita Ifeoma Isedeh(a.k.a Omaliicha)

Anita works with Silverbird’s Rhythm 93.7 Fm Lagos. The first thing you’ll probably love about Anita when you get to listen to her present on air is her infectious laughter. It instantly makes her very likeable The air of simplicity around her when she talks is just awesome, little wonder she tags her self ‘happy-go-easy’.
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Omaliicha
A self-confessed foodie with her favorite delicacy being Plantain and Beans, the tall dark chocolatey skinned animated presenter is always a delight to listen to. For more gist about Anita, you can check her bio up here

 Oluwakemi Itari Catherine Owatemi(a.k.a Kemi Smallz)

Kemi Smallz is an epitome of  the expression ‘short and sweet’. An on-air radio presenter with City 105.1 fm in Lagos, Kemi the first of 5 children is fun to listen to on radio. When she goes at it with entertainment gists cutting across movies, celebrities and music, she gets you all wrapped up in her world.
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Kemi Smallz
An MTV base VJ finalist, Kemi’s on-air personality is that of life and energy. You can catch her on the morning show tagged ‘Breakfast in the city’ with her co-hosts Oscar(hubby of Titi the dynamite) and Dan Foster doing their thing. Get familiar! @kemismallzz on instagram.

Gbemi Olateru Olagbegi(Gbemi O.O)

Gbemi has solidly established her presence in the Nigerian broadcasting scene. With many awards and honors to her name, already, the sky can only be her stepping stone. From working with Cool Fm Lagos, where she first gained traction, to her new home in the Beat 99.9 Fm both in Lagos, Gbemi is doing very well for herself. Her recent laurel is her award for Nigerian female broadcaster of the year 2014.
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Gbemi
The catch about Gbemi probably has to be the fact that her shows are all about trendy stuffs going on in everyday lives as it relates to the young generation, and she’s ever real and down-to-earth like that. You get to vent your feelings, make shout outs and get juicy stories and interviews with icons, and a whole lot more fun stuff on her drive time show belt. For the full details, hit here


Maria Okanrende

The beautiful Maria wows her listeners with her delightful British accent. She always get to entertain us with bits and bytes especially centered on relationships and gets teased by her co-hosts Osi and Olisa on The morning rush, an entertainment packed morning radio show on the beat 99.9 Fm Lagos.
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Maria
Maria is also into acting. Featuring in MTV base ‘s Shuga drama series. She’s sure living her dream! Catch her Mondays to Fridays 6am-11am on thebeat99.com where you can listen in to topical issues, local and international celebrity news and gossips, great music and banter all the way.

Toke Makinwa

Toke Makinwa probably needs no introduction. A multimedia personality who is doing fantastic on radio as well as on TV and with her YouTube channel ‘TokeMoments’. She co-hosts The morning drive show on Rhythm 93.7 Fm Lagos where topical issues are discussed ‘Toke style’.
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Toke has got it good!
Toke has that charm working for her that tends to draw people ever closer into her world. As a media and talk show personality, there’s no stopping this woman I reckon.

I obviously can’t mention them all but like I said earlier, these are a few who are doing great things and making the Lagos, Nigerian and indeed the airwaves all around the world worth a good listen.

A light skinned lady or a Dark skinned one?


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This topic has always been around for a long time and many dark skinned  ladies have received serious backlashes for trying to change their skin color by bleaching their God- given beautiful dark skin. No doubt it raises the question of self-esteem on the part of such ladies. Asides that, do men, particularly African men prefer light skinned ladies? Most definitely, this is a case of preference and like the video below will concur with me, there is actually much more than just the complexion that a man looks out for in a woman, but it seems the ladies in question have lost sight of that fact. Personally, I like both complexions, but there are other factors that come into play that I can’t even begin to explain.
Perhaps it’s because the fair skinned lady  is usually easily more noticeable or attractive from afar given the brightness of her color, that’s one of the probable reasons why they are ‘allegedly more sought after’ which the dark skinned ladies don’t find funny at all. So they go about trying to be a lighter version of themselves to feel more attractive too.
In a nut shell, I’ll say beauty lies in the beholder’s eyes and ladies should be proud of their skin color and not pay mind to any opinion or ‘popular belief’ that light skinned ladies are more preferable, and even if the guy they are crushing on comes out and says he prefers the other skin color other than her own, she should not let that dampen her self-worth but rather work or show more valuable and interesting characteristics such as her sense of humor and intelligence for example which may just win the brother over. So dark skinned or light, you are far more of a lady than your complexion.
Watch and enjoy the funny video below by A Nigerian dude who inspired this write-up.

5 remarkable facts about Namibian Beauty and one-time Big Brother Africa Winner Dillish Mathews

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Namibian Big Brother Africa(BBA) ‘The Chase’ 2013 winnerDillish Mathews, is all about beauty and brains. She definitely passes for a role model. Here are FIVE top facts you probably never knew about her:

She’s a woman of her word. A couple of days to the 2013 Big Brother Africa grand finale, Dillish and fellow Ghanaian housemate, Elikem, both promised each other a gift if either of them won the game show. While Elikem promised her a Golf 7 car, Dillish promised him a bike as that was on top of Elikem’s wish list, and she did honor her promise to Elikem having emerged BBA The Chase 2013 winner.

She’s Kenyan Apparently Dillish who flew the Namibian flag at Big Br other Africa 2013 is said to be a daughter to a Kenyan retired soldier who goes by the name Abdi Guyo.
A week after the BBA show ended, Rinelda Mouton, a Namibian journalist exclusively interviewed Dillish where it emerged that the young Namibian and her family were on a mission to find her real father.
She added that she had only learned about her Kenyan father through her mother Selma Pashukeni.
Abdi, who is of Somali origin, gave a detailed interview at the Standard Group offices saying that he indeed fathered Dillish during his peacekeeping mission to Namibia in 1989.

She’s an astute businesswoman Dillish has definitely put her fame and fortune to good use business wise, as she has her own make-up line of lip gloss and lipstick ranges and she is a co-owner of a High Definition Salon in her home country. The Namibian’s make-up line was featured in a 2015 skills expo organized by The Namibian Training Authority. She’s also reported to be keen on venturing into property development in Zimbabwe and Namibia should the opportunity present itself.

She’s a smart lady In this context of smart I’m talking academic smart as She’s been found out to be a student of Psychology, and plans on going through with it to the finish despite her fortune on winning the BBA show.
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She’s as humble as they come These were the paraphrased words of her business partner Jackie Muchanyuka-Mgido, a Hollywood based Zimbabwean celebrity make-up artist who founded Vault Cosmetics, the marketing and distribution company for the Dillish lipstick and lip gloss make-up range of products.
“What I loved about Dillish is her humility. When I approached her with the idea, I told her that as a business that was just starting, I did not have any money to give her and she said it was okay, and we would settle that when things start going on well,” said the celebrated Zimbabwean make-up artist, who has worked with top artists like actor Denzel Washington and rapper-cum-actor-James Todd “LL Cool J” Smith.
“I was pleasantly surprised. I mean she has money, she won Big Brother and her humility is just something to admire,” Muchanyuka-Mgido told the Daily News.

There you go, five remarkable things to know about Dillish Mathews. Which of these five got you surprised if any? Let us know.

 Culled from vibeghana.com, happenings.com.ng, dailynews.co.zw and newvision.co.ug



Why Kenyans are simply invincible in long distance races

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Kenyans particularly the Kalenjin tribe of Kenya are known to be champions in long distance running competitions on the international front. To get to run and be a champ like them, here are some ‘hacks’ you should know about these special breed of athletes:
Kenyans feed on less junk and more on fresh food. The Ugali ( a porridge made from water and maize) and milk are sole ingredients (if not the only ingredients) that forms most Kenyans’ diet.
Reports say that Kenyans generally in their country have no sports bars, no electrolyte drinks, no protein powder “recovery shakes” or chocolate bars as are common with Western athletes. Whatever eaten is always fresh. There is no fridge to fall back on. There are no cookies in the storage room.
Pointer: Long distance runners should probably stay away from junk food to be the best in that field.

Genetics might play a role
Scientists have researched and postulated that the shape of the bodies such as in their ankles and calves helps these marathon Kenyan runners. They say “body build is particularly important in running because your leg is like a pendulum. The more weight you have farther away from your center of gravity, the more difficult it is to swing.” To further drive this point home, a renowned sports editor said “If you were to go to the Olympic starting line and measure everyone’s ankles and calves before the race, you could predict, statistically, who’s likely to win.”

Mental Toughness
This definitely cannot be written off. Mental toughness of those Kenyans definitely must be a major factor. They are determined to go all the way no matter the odds.
Consider the famous 1,500-meter upset in the 1968 Mexico City Olympics.
Kalenjin runner Kipchoge Keino defeated world-record holder Jim Ryun. That day Keino not only won gold, but he also ushered in an era of Kenyan dominance.
The amazing thing is that doctors had ordered Keino not to run the race at all. He’d been diagnosed with a gallbladder infection just a few days before. A gallbladder infection is incredibly painful. It hurts the most when you breathe hard, when you’re running. Keino not only won the race, but he also set the Olympic record.
Perhaps, the next point can further buttress the mental toughness factor.

The Kalenjins go through intense initiation ceremonies
As teenagers, some Kenyans recounted the ordeal of passing through the initiation ceremony, a rite of passage that’s all about enduring pain. For example they were made to crawl mostly naked through a tunnel of African stinging nettles, then they get beaten on the bony part of the ankle, their knuckles were then squeezed together, and then the formic acid from the stinging nettle was wiped onto their genitals.
But all that was just warm-up; early in the morning they get circumcised, with a sharp stick, with the conviction that circumcision teaches kids to tolerate pressure and withstand pain, and ultimately is what makes them a man or woman.
The new generation of Kalenjins however have said they will not pass on treatment like circumcision to their own kids as a way of  teaching them perseverance. They are of the belief that there are better ways to teach and train their kids to be champs on the tracks if they do decide to pursue a career in that path.
I certainly  agree with the new generation of Kalenjins. There are definitely more decent and effective ways to prepare your mind and body to become a world class champion on the tracks or in any other sport for that matter. My two kobo...what do you think guys

Getting acquainted with one of Africa's finest Nutritionists, Yemisi Dolapo Lawal

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Afri-culture is honored to introduce to you this wonderful lady’s achievement. purpose and drive as a Nutritionist, Health and wellness professional. Yemisi Dolapo Lawal is a Nigerian mother and wife. She currently works as a Nutritionist at a State hospital in Nigeria. She’s also a public health speaker and provides content for health and wellness columns of Nigerian newspapers.
It is our belief Yemisi Lawal will serve as a source of inspiration to many, so we got to interview her to tell us more about what she does.
Good day ma can we get to know a little about your background briefly please?
I am a trained mental health nurse and a nutritionist.
You had your tertiary education in the UK, why did you decide to move back to Nigeria for work?
Having worked in the health field in the UK for six years and seeing how the system over there works, I was motivated to come back to Nigeria to introduce some of the unique ways the healthcare system is being run over there in the UK to our own healthcare system.
What do you love most about your job as a Nutritionist?
Advising and encouraging people on eating healthily and maintaining a safe weight.
Working in Nigeria is no doubt a tough terrain, what would you say are the challenges facing the health care sector in Nigeria?
The challenges facing the health care sector in Nigeria include provision of safe treatment area, safe continuity of care for patients if they change hospitals, and affordable safe treatment for patients.
I am aware you are also a health and wellness entrepreneur, could you tell us about that as well as the challenges that come with it?
Well, I give nutrition and health talks to schools, companies and I also write in newspapers. This is a means of promoting good health to the public including young school kids who can educate their parents at home and practise the good health and nutrition ideas provided to them so as to reduce the risk of ill health like diabetes and high blood pressure in the future. The challenge however is most people find change difficult but by providing this health information in an easy way to understand, it can be accomplished.
What would you say is a popular myth or controversy going around, if any, as it concerns the nutrition and well being of man?
“Being fat means you’re healthy”.
As a nutritionist and a proud Nigerian and African, it would be interesting to know what your favorite local dish is, can you tell us what that is?
Ogbono and white amala
If you were to leave us with one health tip, what would that be?
Eat well & don’t forget to exercise for thirty minutes daily
What are your plans for the future as a Nutritionist and Wellness Professional?
To continue to educate the general public through ways they can easily understand.
What advice would you give to younger ones out there to be successful in their chosen career or business endeavours?
Never give up on your dreams and aspirations
Finally on a lighter note, how do you like to unwind off the job?
Having a lovely time reading story books to my kids
How about that for a hobby! Thank you for your time ma’am.